Kalau nak cari suami...

Ustaz cakap kalau nak cari suami, cari yang selalu pi masjid.

Saya kata, kalu nak cari suami, pergi masjid sahaja tak cukup, kene cari yang berjaya tunai tanggungjawab dan sentiasa tunai tanggungjawabnya.

Diri saya yang lain cakap, nak cari suami (yang baik), diri sendiri kene baik dahulu, tunaikan tanggungjawab dulu, baru yang baik tu datang.

Haaaaaaaaaaa

It's all about responsibility.

Heart is something hard to be taken care of...and of course the heart is something easy to get ripped off and also to get plastered on.
You feel happy  about things happened to you,but sometimes it is bad for you.
For example the praises. You may like them but they might be the simplest thing in get yourself doomed.

the matter here is you have to get controlled over yourself. Based on what? What shall be your guidance? 

The truth?

What that truth is?

Want to know?

Think... think.. look around... and think again.. and ask from someone that is pious and experts

WaAllahua'lam

Do listen to the others, even though they are not best friend of yours!!!

When the idea come, it's nice to be written down....before it is forgotten.

Hye, Assalamualaikum dan salam sejahtera.
I am hoping you all are having an another nice good day.
Can you count, how many times you sneeze today?
Say Alhamdulillah, thanks to Allah, the Almighty Creator...then.

"Do not try to make me impress on you because I always see the awesomeness in you"

What is prejudice?
Let make it easy and clear..it is just like having judgment or bias to someone or things, and it can be related to discrimination.

I do not know whether are there still people who not judgmental to the others these days.
When the judgmental start, the discrimination is started as well (although when there are some who pretends that they are not)

Usually when there are certain things that we do not like or something which do not met our taste, we tend to be judgmental to those who have them.

For example; to those who believe that Muslims are terrorist, they will be prejudice to any Muslim they met even though that Muslim is totally not a terrorist. (Above all, Muslims are not even terrorist).

Even for some Muslims, some of them are prejudice to those who do not practice what Islam has taught.
It is wrong to do that, we have to befriended with that kind of people, and use some appropriate ways to bring them towards the right path. Not all people can be taught with serious lecture. Advice must be given to them after heart-to-heart talk.

 There were many times, I gave my opinions to my colleague or my schoolmate. It was such a pain to have my opinion to be rejected whilst the others who spoke the same idea as mine were accepted.
It did get on my nerves. However, it was hard for me to mad at them. I just keep those turbulence of angers in my heart.

It does made me think that they are prejudice on me. I do not know what is the cause.
It is terrible for me because from those incidents, I 'learnt' that I have to be quiet whenever there are discussions. What I need to do is just nod and if I am disagree, I just have to keep it 'save' in this body.

I know...it is totally wrong. I do not need to nod and agree in everything. Instead, I have to stand up the right things. Yea, we are not always right but then, if we see or know something that is wrong, we have to, we have to (because it is our responsible) to change it!

In Islam, there is no difference in people...people are all the same. What make people different is our level of Iman towards the Almighty.

To not let the others discriminate, we ourselves has to diminish those discrimination thoughts. Do treat people equally. However, when it comes to Ajnabi relationship, syariat must be totally considered.

Also, we have to be ourselves, which means we are confident in what we are doing. Always brave to do something that you are capable with. It is a great opportunity that you are capable in doing certain things, so grab the chance to do it confidently.

I am sure that there are some people out there who are trying hard to make people impress to him or her.
Maybe she or he wants to destroy the underestimation of people towards him or her...
or maybe to make people treat him or her equally with others..or
to show to the world that he or she is awesome people.

In other words, he or she is not being her/himself.
Friends, do pour your true self....

• laugh the way like you laugh with your siblings (certain occasion only),
• Say 'no' (in such appropriate ways) to things that you are really not disagree.
• Doctrine yourself  'It is my responsible to do the right things and it is such a relief to pour those out!' - replace 'right things' like 'giving lecture', etc.
• Always happy in doing anything...say Alhamdulillah!
• Doctrine yourself that you have to go on living no matter what happen. let bygone be gone! 
• Do the best in present (now).
• Always read book or watch movies that could trigger our 'motivation valve in our vessel'. (I recommend you to learn about Umar al-Khattab and Muhammad al-Fateh)

"Do not try to make me impress on you because I always see the awesomeness in you"
That was what I  meant.

It is better to be unrecognized by people.

Use what you have(Your ability/talent) to get HIS love....HIS redha...

Love-Guide-Open

ILMU ----- medium ke arah mengembalikan Islam ke seluruh dunia (salah satu la)

Assalamualaikum dan salam sejahtera..



Tadi, aku baru sahaja buat bacaan pasal serangan ke atas orang Kristian yang menyambut Krismas oleh orang Iraq.

http://news.yahoo.com/christmas-day-bombings-iraq-39-capital-kill-37-140523489.html

Kebanyakan yang komen macam 'condemn' Islam dan menganggap orang Islam ini sebagai ekstremis.
Agak sedih, membaca kata-kata nista itu.

Pertama-Sesuatu berita itu susah untuk mengetahui kesahihannya dek kerana ramai pihak yanng seringkali kita dengar, suka memanipulasikan maklumat, membelitkan fakta. Itulah yang seringkali berlaku, bukan? Itulah dunia zaman sekarang. Betulkah macam tu je kejadian tu berlaku? WaAllahua'lam.

Kedua-Bukan semua orang Islam baik dan sempurna. Ada saja yang masih lagi jahil, yang banyak kekurangan dari segi ilmu, Islam sekadar atas nama, dan sebagainya lagi. Kalau ikutkan nafsu(jahat), binasalah orang itu. Nauzubillah. Ya, Muslim, mungkin ada yang ekstremis. Apakah fahaman orang-orang yang ekstrem itu?
Sesungguhnya, Islam mengajar supaya menghormati individu-individu yang beragama bukan Islam.

Aku tidak suka bila ada yang mengatakan Muslim itu pengganas. Fakta diputarbelitkan untuk menampakkan orang Islam itu adalah pengganas, sedangkan diorang yang ganas!
Duduklah dekat Malaysia, Brunei, Indonesia...orang yang kuat agama tidak ada pun menunjukkan keganasan sama ada dari luar apatah dari dalam...macam mana tu.

Siapa yang menghancurkan Nagasaki dan Hiroshima pada satu ketika dulu?
Siapa yang melepaskan bomb kimia?
Siapa yang entah apa-apa pergi pukul, tembak budak-budak kecil dekat Palestin?

Memang betullah, kata-kata ini; yang buruk nampak, yang baik tak nampak (I dont know the actual idiom, huhu)

Muslim di Asia Tenggara, kebanyakannya masih aman secara fizikalnya. Alhamdulillah. Tetapi bagaimana pula dari segi dalamannya? Kita tak kuat dari segi dalaman, semua. Allah S.W.T mengurniakan suasana aman dekat kita tetapi, kita lalai dengan ujian tu; Solat tidak punctual, lalai dengan hiburan, mementingkan ilmu dunia hingga lalai pada amalan yang membawa kebahagiaan di akhirat sana.

Dunia yang fana ini bukanlah untuk orang Islam.

Jom semua!
Jom kita tegakkan Islam dengan berjihad dalam Ilmu!!
Belajarlah untuk disayangi oleh Allah!
Belajar untuk mendapat Redha dan Cinta-Nya!
Bersungguh-sungguh belajar supaya dapat kita memberi sumbangan!

#rindu bahasa arab.

Semua insan diuji..orang yang berkata-kata itu juga akan diuji dengan kata-katanya itu.
Apakah boleh kata-kata itu dibuktikan melalui 'action'?

In shaaa Allah boleh!

Wassalam...

aiii..banyaknya kekurangan aku...saudara-saudari semua, if aku ada salah silap, tolonglah ampunkan aku dan tegurlah aku, in shaaa Allah aku boleh menerimanya. Jangan cakap belakang deh. Aku pun tak nak mengumpat dan diumpat. Bahaya.

Ketupat Rendang 1434H ; Keluarga Bahagia

Assalamualaikum dan salam sejahtera...

Selamat hari raya, semua...maafkan aku atas segala kesilapanku.
Maaf zahir dan batin...in syaaa Allah, aku pun memaafkan =)

So, apa kisah ketupat rendang tahun 2013 ni?
Menarik la jugak. Ketupat dah habis time raya kedua lagi...hanya tinggal rendangnya sahaja yang kini menjadi lauk nasi....best weh.

Keluarga aku yang banyak beraya...(boleh dikira dengan jari setakat ni, berapa org yang dah datang rumahku)

Raya pertama...beraya dekat Kg Pulau Manis je..yang hanya lebih kurag 20 kilometer dari Gong Badak.
Walaupun rumah sama yang kitorang lawat tiap2 tahun.....tapi, aku peduli apa! Raya je...! Makanan tak sama pun, though...
aku mendambakan nasi minyak lauk ayam masak merah tu, tapi tak der yang buat time aku beraya kat kampung tu, huhu.
Tapi, yang paling penting, kitorang semakin rapat dengan saudara-mara yang selama ni duk asyik menghadap buku jer, paling tidak, bersosial dalam laman sesawang jer. ;)

Raya kedua...kita balik kampung tau, yang lagi jauh..Thailand????
Tak ar...Kelantan jer..Pasir Mas and then Rantau Panjang yang memang dekat ngan Sungai Golok...
Korang boleh duk kat tebing Sg Golok, and then jerit ucap Selamat Hari Raya kat masyarakat negara jiran yang beragama Islam di seberang nun. #Betapa. But, well, I was not doing that.

Now, is the 3rd day of Syawal...tomorrow and tomorrow, in shaaa Allah, there will be more stories regarding this raya thing..

Salam Lebaran semua!!!

p/s : more Raya pics on relative's instagram and Facebook!